refactor: remove dependence on abseil-cpp

[XuehaiPan]

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You can use the syntax close #15213 if this solves the issue #15213

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Resolves #84

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Implemented Tasks

• absl::Span -> (pointer, length)
• absl::c_copy -> std::copy
• absl::InlinedVector -> std::vector
• absl::flat_hash_set -> std::unordered_set
• absl::flat_hash_map -> std::unordered_map
• AbslHashValue -> custom hash function
• absl::HashOf -> std::hash + custom hash combine function
• absl::StrAppendFormat -> std::stringstream
• absl::StrCat -> std::stringstream
• absl::StrFormat -> std::stringstream
• absl::StrJoin -> std::stringstream

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Codecov Report

All modified lines are covered by tests ✅

Comparison is base (f97aa78) 100.00% compared to head (a42f778) 100.00%.

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