Abstract away BlockingQueue.offer()/poll() which notify after some period of inability to proceed

[leventov]

There are several places in Druid code which implement some sort of untimed BlockingQueue.take(), but they want to notify or log about inability to make progress, so they use BlockingQueue.offer():

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They all use different strategies and patterns. It might be reasonable to extract this pattern as some sort of utility, or e. g. specify a common "timeout" in druid after which such events are logged, or a configuration might be added to choose between logging and emitting such events as alerts.

[justinborromeo]

Opened #7052 to address the suggested changes above.

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